In Parenting Coordination, I am appointed as a non-confidential neutral to meet with parents on an ongoing basis to help settle post-divorce disputes. If the parents can’t agree, the judges read my recommendations and often write Orders to solve the dispute, using information I provide to them from my ongoing work with the family. Most of those parents have one or more personality disorders, but they can learn communication tools to parent much more effectively and to avoid conflict in the presence of the children.